I have recently been asked by a friend who is not in the lifestyle, how C and I identify other swinger couples. I thought it was such an interesting question as I had actually never really thought about it before. Which then lead me to this post…..
Roxy and I like porn. I like it a little more than her, but we both enjoy it. I used to watch porn alone but now, Roxy and I have decided that we want to watch it together. The fact is, watching porn with your partner is so much better than watching it alone. Much like sex is better than masturbation, two can do better than one.
Threesomes are the hot topic for us right now. Maybe that is what happens when you wish for things…they have an increased chance of coming true.
The last time we saw the “fit” couple we they had asked before hand if we would be willing to engage in full swap with them. I thought the fact they asked in advance showed class and respect for both Roxy and I and if has left me wondering, how do you manage etiquette when swinging? Without knowing exactly how your partner and the other couple will act in different situations, there is always some risk involved.
We needed to have our first experience to learn what we wanted in this lifestyle. Were we fine with full swap, soft swap, same room, everyone touching each other? What we concluded is that C and I love being together, with everyone involved. We find it sexy when numerous hands and tongues all being used. Although our first time was not mind-blowing we definitely grew from it, which is the most important thing. Read on and you will see what I mean.
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