This past weekend was the final lifestyle event of 2009 for Roxy and I (well, actually we may meet another couple for coffee next week but it’s not yet confirmed). We decided to connect with the “Fit Couple” again as we always have a good time, but instead of a hotel which has become the norm for us, we decided on dinner and a visit to The X Club.
Roxy and I met the “International” couple at Club X for a night that was supposed to be full of pleasure, the kind that only swinging can bring. New partners, new bodies, lips and hands, new sensations, variety. After a few drinks we moved to the back of the club where all this took place, at least it did for Roxy.
The last time we saw the “fit” couple we they had asked before hand if we would be willing to engage in full swap with them. I thought the fact they asked in advance showed class and respect for both Roxy and I and if has left me wondering, how do you manage etiquette when swinging? Without knowing exactly how your partner and the other couple will act in different situations, there is always some risk involved.
Tonight we meet the couple with whom we have shared our best experience yet for a second round. This time, a hotel room, one king bed and four hot bodies.
For those not in the swinging lifestyle there are terms that are often used to describe people, rules, well pretty much all elements of the lifestyle itself. Here are some commonly used terms in the swinger culture to help those looking to get in or those just “browsing” the numerous lifestyle websites that exist online:
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