Fantasy Plan

Happy New Year everyone! We have just finished another decade and are on to the next. Each year we make a list of resolutions that we plan to implement…but does anyone really keep them?

Roxy and I have had an incredible ride in 2009. We definitely hit a bottom in our relationship, and were able to recover and hit highs that after 14 years together may have seemed impossible for many other couples. Sure, swinging and fucking other people had a part in that recovery, but it really came down to the two of us realizing what we had in each other, and what that meant for the rest of our lives.

It is holiday season and for Roxy and I that means a lot of time with the kids as they are off school. We are not going away this year other than for a few nights to a fun family water park, but we also won’t be participating in many of the swing club events and parties that seem to be going on.

As our followers know we have been exploring the lifestyle for just over 5 months. In that time we have been very lucky to meet some wonderful people and be in numerous situations. This has truly allowed us to learn what works for us. Although it may change later on but right now this is what the perfect mix is for Roxy…….

This past weekend was the final lifestyle event of 2009 for Roxy and I (well, actually we may meet another couple for coffee next week but it’s not yet confirmed). We decided to connect with the “Fit Couple” again as we always have a good time, but instead of a hotel which has become the norm for us, we decided on dinner and a visit to The X Club.