As our followers know we have been exploring the lifestyle for just over 5 months. In that time we have been very lucky to meet some wonderful people and be in numerous situations. This has truly allowed us to learn what works for us. Although it may change later on but right now this is what the perfect mix is for Roxy…….
One night stands or an on-going relationship when swinging? This is the question that I am now thinking about. I used to think a long-term relationship was what I would prefer, but this is changing. There are however benefits to both.
As Roxy and I have now been in the swinging lifestyle for more than a few months, we have started to discuss the amount of time we feel is right to commit to the practice. How often should we meet people, go to clubs, respond to emails? How much is too much?
Sometimes finding people in life that are experienced in things that interest you draws you close to them. Whether it is as a career mentor, an expert in your hobby or perhaps a couple who have been in the “lifestyle” for some time, it is natural to be drawn to them. That is what happened when we met the “experienced couple”.
Married 10 years (minus one month…close enough!), together for 14 years. Two amazing kids, two great careers, a beautiful house, lots of friends, a wonderful family, and a true partnership. What else could you want?…a lot more. This is the life of my husband and I. We had the foundation (which is why we are still together today) but over the years grew apart emotionally and sexually. During that time we both had affairs. But now we are stronger, better and enjoying each other completely. In EVERY way…….
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