Fantasy Plan

Happy New Year everyone! We have just finished another decade and are on to the next. Each year we make a list of resolutions that we plan to implement…but does anyone really keep them?

Roxy and I have had an incredible ride in 2009. We definitely hit a bottom in our relationship, and were able to recover and hit highs that after 14 years together may have seemed impossible for many other couples. Sure, swinging and fucking other people had a part in that recovery, but it really came down to the two of us realizing what we had in each other, and what that meant for the rest of our lives.

As our followers know we have been exploring the lifestyle for just over 5 months. In that time we have been very lucky to meet some wonderful people and be in numerous situations. This has truly allowed us to learn what works for us. Although it may change later on but right now this is what the perfect mix is for Roxy…….

One night stands or an on-going relationship when swinging? This is the question that I am now thinking about. I used to think a long-term relationship was what I would prefer, but this is changing. There are however benefits to both.

As Roxy and I have now been in the swinging lifestyle for more than a few months, we have started to discuss the amount of time we feel is right to commit to the practice. How often should we meet people, go to clubs, respond to emails? How much is too much?