Roxy and I have had an incredible ride in 2009. We definitely hit a bottom in our relationship, and were able to recover and hit highs that after 14 years together may have seemed impossible for many other couples. Sure, swinging and fucking other people had a part in that recovery, but it really came down to the two of us realizing what we had in each other, and what that meant for the rest of our lives.
As our followers know we have been exploring the lifestyle for just over 5 months. In that time we have been very lucky to meet some wonderful people and be in numerous situations. This has truly allowed us to learn what works for us. Although it may change later on but right now this is what the perfect mix is for Roxy…….
I have recently been asked by a friend who is not in the lifestyle, how C and I identify other swinger couples. I thought it was such an interesting question as I had actually never really thought about it before. Which then lead me to this post…..
Aside from all the blogging, our kids, time together, cleaning the house, work, finishing her Master’s, being a mom, etc. etc. etc., Roxy has a life. As such, she has not had a second to herself to write a post, so in her absence, I have been doing most of the writing.
Roxy and I like porn. I like it a little more than her, but we both enjoy it. I used to watch porn alone but now, Roxy and I have decided that we want to watch it together. The fact is, watching porn with your partner is so much better than watching it alone. Much like sex is better than masturbation, two can do better than one.
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