Tag Archives: lifestyle

Dating Alone

Posted on 12. Dec, 2011 by in Marriage, Our Story

Dating Alone

For some reason, over the past few months many of the conversations we have had with couples we know have gone down the path of discussing the possibility of separating and dating another couple in one on one dates. It started with the couple we met this summer with whom we have now played two times.  While [...]

Divide and Conquer

Posted on 07. Dec, 2011 by in Our Story, Swinging

Divide and Conquer

In the past few months Roxy and I have been incredibly busy with our Vanilla lives.  Kids going back to school, work commitments, general life ‘stuff’.  We have had a couple of dates with couples that we know well but hadn’t ventured into the realm of meeting anyone new for quite a while.  Last weekend [...]

My philosophy on swinging after two years of doing it

Posted on 28. Aug, 2011 by in Swinging

My philosophy on swinging after two years of doing it

This summer we celebrated (or at least knowingly surpassed) our two year anniversary of joining the lifestyle and fucking other couples.  To be honest I am not sure that it feels like it has been a long or short period of time, but it definitely has become a part of our life as a couple. [...]

So Many People, So Little Time

Posted on 04. May, 2011 by in Our Story, Swinging

So Many People, So Little Time

One of the challenges with having a great family life full of kids activities and time with Roxy is fitting in time to meet new people in the swinger lifestyle.  Not that we are out for as many notches on our bed post as possible, but we have learned that for all the couples you [...]

Closing in on Two Years

Posted on 20. Apr, 2011 by in Our Story, Swinging

Closing in on Two Years

It was almost two years ago that Roxy and I decided to give the lifestlye a shot.  It started with a simple visit to Wicked and a simple post on this site. I remember the nerves and the anxious excitement of walking into Wicked, being looked at as obvious fresh meat. I remember the thoughts [...]