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What We Did On New Year’s Eve

Posted on 01. Jan, 2012 by in Our Story, Swinging

What We Did On New Year’s Eve

Ok, so it’s not what you think, we spent new years with our awesome kids and some of our closest Vanilla friends at two different house parties.  I know, it’s not what you all wanted to read about but for Roxy and I, our non lifestyle life is just as important (ok even more important) [...]

Dating Alone

Posted on 12. Dec, 2011 by in Marriage, Our Story

Dating Alone

For some reason, over the past few months many of the conversations we have had with couples we know have gone down the path of discussing the possibility of separating and dating another couple in one on one dates. It started with the couple we met this summer with whom we have now played two times.  While [...]

Divide and Conquer

Posted on 07. Dec, 2011 by in Our Story, Swinging

Divide and Conquer

In the past few months Roxy and I have been incredibly busy with our Vanilla lives.  Kids going back to school, work commitments, general life ‘stuff’.  We have had a couple of dates with couples that we know well but hadn’t ventured into the realm of meeting anyone new for quite a while.  Last weekend [...]

My philosophy on swinging after two years of doing it

Posted on 28. Aug, 2011 by in Swinging

My philosophy on swinging after two years of doing it

This summer we celebrated (or at least knowingly surpassed) our two year anniversary of joining the lifestyle and fucking other couples.  To be honest I am not sure that it feels like it has been a long or short period of time, but it definitely has become a part of our life as a couple. [...]

Time

Posted on 12. Jun, 2011 by in Our Story, Swinging

Time

The funny thing about the lifestyle is that once you get over all the fear, anxiety and nervousness about what to do, how to do it and with whom to share it with you find yourself really enjoying the fun you have.  Meeting new people, feeling the new sensations with others, it gets to be a [...]