Well the last few months have been busy, but never too busy to have fun.  C and I have been only seeing couples that we have previously been with but they are all couples we love being with.  One couple has been asking to see C and I alone – meaning the guy wants to have a date with me while C has a date with the woman.  We have started to discuss this possibility but just aren’t sure when and where.  We really like this couple and totally trust their intentions, there is always a little bit of a hesitation with something new.  The compromise in the meantime was a meeting with the guy for breakfast at Cora’s.  I know that is not so exciting but it was nice to sit (dressed!) and have an opportunity to really talk to him.  Our goodbye was not easy, and ended with a make out in the parking lot.  Luckily we chose a location which was not close to where either of us would know anyone…

Now we have a date on Saturday with a couple we have known for a while but have only seen a few times at parties.  We have never played (other than some kissing), although we made a date in September where the intentions were to go for dinner and then play at their place.  The female half got sick that night so it ended up being a 3some at dinner (lucky me).  We rescheduled and the only date that worked for the 4 of us is this Saturday.  The problem is that over the last few months I have lost interest in this couple.  I don’t feel that we can cancel as I do like them as friends (and we have had this date for seriously 3 months) but I don’t think I can play with them.  Our plan is to hear a band play and then go to Wicked or their place.  Now you never know how I will feel once the night starts but as of now……there will be no playing!

I will be sure to let you all know how it goes……does anyone what to make a wager as to whether or not I change my mind?

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