My philosophy on swinging after two years of doing it
This summer we celebrated (or at least knowingly surpassed) our two year anniversary of joining the lifestyle and fucking other couples. To be honest I am not sure that it feels like it has been a long or short period of time, but it definitely has become a part of our life as a couple. Rarely do more than a few weeks go by without us at least having plans to meet another couple in the near future. Rarely do we not log in to check our emails for any period longer than a week. Never do I regret our decision to do this, nor have I ever thought we should stop for any reason.
Thinking back as to how we got into this whole situation Roxy and I had come from a low point in our relationship. Now, as a result of many things which include membership in the club of swinging with other couples we are at a high that I could not have imagined possible. To be frank, I look forward and see our love, marriage and relationship as being limitless. I can’t put my finger on the impact of the swinging but I have to say, the simple fact that Roxy and I have gotten to the point that we really trust each other is amazing. We went from a point when we started this journey where we questioned every date, every drink, every kiss, to a point where now in a group of people, we don’t even feel the need to check on each other given the true commitment we know we have. It is that simple fact, the unbreakable trust, that I think getting into swinging has done most for me personally. Letting your wife fuck other men, kiss them, message them on Blackberry and Facebook…that is true love. I COMPLETELY trust my wife and know however good another man is (in bed), she loves and is committed to me, forever.
Tomorrow is our 12th anniversary. We have seen so much in 12 years of marriage and 16 years in a relationship. I know we also have much more to see, experience and learn. From simple things like meeting new people and changing jobs to life long endeavors like watching our kids develop into young adults and beyond to fulfilling all of life’s fantasies (sexual and non – see my double penetration fantasy). So what is my philosophy? Well for life it is to simply enjoy it as it really is short. For marriage, it is to respect your partner and ALWAYS try to do more, do better, do your best…and regarding swinging, it is to just have fun. Sex and physical pleasure with others is something that only two trusting and committed people can do. That is what I have with Roxy. That is why I am one of the luckiest men I know. That is why I love her so….
xoxoxo Roxy and happy 12th anniversary. I promise to love you and constantly strive to be the best I can be (and to fulfill ALL of your fantasies if you would just blog about them one of these days!!!!).
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