For people who don’t swing, it must seem that we who do, live the most amazing lives full of fantasies every time we “get it on” with another couple.  Is the act of playing with others as far as our fantasies are allowed to go? For me, it is not. The important part of a fantasy is in being able to talk about it with your partner, regardless of whether you are a swinger or not, and regardless of whether you ever live it out in reality.

While Roxy and I are a full swap couple, allowing each other to have sex with other people (in the same room), we do sometimes talk about fantasies and what each of us wants to do, try, experience… Lately, I have been completely fascinated with the thought of doing a double penetration (DP) with Roxy as the center of attention (or someone else, but Roxy first!). Double Penetration, or DP is when a woman has two penises inserted in any combo of her mouth, anus, or vagina, but is most commonly done in the anus and vagina. This is my fantasy, to have another man take Roxy with me, at the same time.  I can’t explain why, it just intrigues me so much. I guess the next question is whether it will ever come true?

So this is my fantasy. Swinging is fun. It fulfills the need that most people have for sexual experimentation and variety while allowing you to still maintain a loving, permanent relationship with one person with whom you share a life. I hope we continue to swing for some time (as long as we can physically handle it) and knowing there are other fantasies that we can add in when the time is right makes it that much more exciting!

What are your fantasies whether you are a swinger or not?

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