I think having been in the “lifestyle” now for almost a year, I wasn’t sure what I really liked about it.  Taking a few months away, I think I now know.  Simply put it is the combination of meeting new people, the physical pleasure of playing with someone else once in a while and ultimately, the knowledge that my wife and I are doing it together.  Alone it would simply not be the same.  The fact that we can meet people and fuck them together makes it so much better.

I think the key learning for me this past year has been that being open and honest in your marriage allows for you to explore all your needs, desires and fantasies as a couple.  Doing it together for whatever emotional or scientific reason makes it better.  I never would have thought that watching some man fuck my wife would excite me.  The fantasies I have had recently of doing my wife with another man in a DP scenario. The fact that I can tell my wife I am going to fuck another woman in front of her.  All these things, while not necessary in life, have made ours a little more interesting. We still have our vanilla friends.  We have our kids.  We have a 90% normal and expected life.  It’s that other 10% that we have that in my opinion makes our better than most.

As of tomorrow, we get to start exploring it again. I love you Roxy!

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