2010 is the year of Roxy and C!
Roxy and I made the most revealing comments of our lives to each other this year. From those comments (which were themselves based on actions we need not discuss in too much detail) we were able to step back and recommit to each other in ways we never thought possible. The beauty in the whole process of reconnecting has been that not only we benefit from our new love and commitment, but so do our friends, families and most importantly, our children. It has been so amazing that Roxy had to ask me to stop commenting on her hot body the other day for fear our almost sever year old daughter would hear. I asked what she would rather our daughter witness, two parents fighting and ignoring each other or two parents in love AND lust with each other…easy answer.
So, what can we do in 2010 to keep it all going? Well, for starters, we are keeping our date night. Every Thursday Roxy and I go out – ALONE – and the only way out is if our job is on the line – that’s the only excuse that will fly. Sure, we can switch nights if we both agree to it but regardless of the depth of the date (coffee can count but it’s a weak choice), we do something. Often we will go straight from work, not even coming home to see the kids, which to be honest makes it fun and makes it feel like we are dating without the responsibilities of our daily lives.
We are also going to make sure we continue to focus our attention on each other. So many things can get in the way of our own relationship, it is easy to sometimes let things slip…like SEX. Ok, I will admit that over the past two weeks with the holidays, kids around all the time and the road trip we took we had a little too long of a break from each other. That all ended last night with a sensational round of hot, raw sex. Roxy got so wet that I was able to get more of my hand insider her pussy than I ever had before. We simply fucked like rabbits. It was awesome. Maybe waiting a week between sessions is the way to go….um, right!
So, what about the lifestyle in 2010 for us? What will our explorations lead us to in 2010? Well for starters, we expect to see the “fit” couple again as we simply enjoy our time with them. We also are expanding our “friends” in the lifestyle which all started with the “educated” couple and their network. Nothing physical, well, not much anyways – but meeting new people through them has been fun and a different way to expand our network from simply going online. We also have a few couples we have been emailing with for some time that we will finally meet in the new year. So far they seem promising. The funny thing is that so far, we have barely had to search out other couples – we simply sit back and wait for people to message us. Not that we don’t want to search profiles and control the first move, but with the volume of emails coming in, we simply wouldn’t be able to manage all the conversations. That said, in 2010 I (C) would like to at least try and find some couple to initiate the conversation with!
Oh, also this year Roxy and I plan on falling deeper in love, fulfilling more of our fantasies and enjoying the lifestyle whether simply meeting new people or fucking and engaging in full swap!
Happy new year everyone…
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