The perfect mix
Every time we see the “Fit” couple we know we are going to have a good time. It is the first couple we really discovered the true fun in swinging with and really, to date, the only couple with whom we regularly connect for nights of sexual fun. We have done pretty much everything as a foursome. We have played beside each other, we have had the girls play while the guys watched, we have swapped in a soft manner, and we have fucked each others significant other in a full swap. It is both exciting and also comfortable now with them.
I am not sure I ever thought about the longevity of swinging relationships with other couples before Roxy and I got into the lifestyle. I probably would say that I would have expected to see a couple a few times and then maybe have moved on to others. Part of the draw to the lifestyle is the variety itself after all. Now having lived it for a while I think my tune has shifted. The amount of effort required to find, meet, connect with and eventually enjoy another couple is difficult. Trying to find a four way match is not an easy challenge.
So I have thought about the perfect scenario for me (not Roxy’s opinion – she will write her own). For me, I like knowing there are one or two couples with whom we can make a date every month or two, and know what to expect. We can be friends, in and out of the bedroom, be somewhat comfortable, but it gives you that added level of excitement when the four of you are together. On top of that (not literally) meeting a new couple every once in a while to add additional variety and the excitement that meeting someone new for the first time brings that freshness to the lifestyle that so many of us desire. It is the combination of the repeat partners mixed with the thrill of the first dates that seems to be the perfect mix for me.
Oh, and for this date we decided to mix up the location. Instead of a hotel, we decided on hitting up The X Club in Mississauga. It was a great mix of dancing, flirting, touching, kissing and fucking…use your imagination this time…
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