The perfect mix for me
It is very timely with the New Year being around the corner that C and I reflect on our journey of the past 5 months. We decided to get into the lifestyle not sure what to really expect. What we did know was that we were truly commitment to each other as a couple (more now that ever before in the 14 years we have been together) but wanted some sexual variety. We also knew that we wanted to explore this sexual journey together……which led us to the lifestyle. We felt it provided us with the ability to have it all.
We were with the “fit couple” on Saturday night and had a blast with them. We have developed a true friendship and a love for sex with each other. The four of us met for dinner first and shared some great sushi and great conversation. We can talk about anything; our kids, work, friends and even sex.
After dinner we headed over to Club X. C and I had been there before but this was the first visit for the “fit couple”. After a few drinks (which lead to bottle service) the dancing began. Thank goodness they like to dance. Let’s just say we had a great time pole dancing together (that would be the 2 females).
We wanted one of the private rooms so we decided to head to the back early, which means 12 am. That is where the real fun began. Since we have been together now for a while we are so comfortable with each other. The four of us are so fluid, it is so easy and beautiful. The mirrors on the ceiling definitely added some fun viewing. We all know how to read each other, what each likes and how to involve all four of us in the mix.
So this leads me to the perfect mix. I would have to say that I never thought having a long term couple in the lifestyle would appeal to me. I really thought it would be more fun to have different partners all the time. But the truth is that it is too much work to find new partners all the time and it is so nice to be so comfortable with another couple. C and I still go on “dates” with new couples, which will always add some additional fun to the mix. But having a few long term couples in the lifestyle has been the perfect mix for me.
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