The fact that I am covering for Roxy is another example of our love and teamwork in our relationship. It is our closeness that has allowed us to take our relationship into the realm of swinging, where we have to be so comfortable as to let each other experience physical and sexual pleasure from others, in the same room, at the same time, together. We truly have a remarkable marriage and life, and the experiences we are having are teaching us so much about ourselves and each other. We may not love everything we learn, but we are learning, and that lets us deal with the things that come out.

We have admitted before that we both cheated, and now Roxy is going to a meeting for work next week and “he” will most likely be there. Over the past year, I have felt so close and in love with her that I simply don’t get phased by that fact. In some way, I actually want him to see her and see how happy and in love she is with me! We lost some of our passion and commitment, but have found ways to not only bring it back to where it once was, but to go beyond my wildest dreams of how close two people can be.

We may not share each other with others forever, or we may choose to be swingers late into our lives, however the one thing that the lifestyle has taught me, is that love and sex are two wonderful things. One that is to be shared between two people and the other than can be shared with others. For some people (like me) the sharing of sex can actually help to grow the love I have for Roxy…

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