We have only met swingers one couple at a time. As well, we have only met any couple for a second date with  the intent that it could lead somewhere.  Perhaps to kiss, perhaps to watch each other fuck, perhaps to full swap.  Regardless, this has been the path which Roxy and I had taken thus far.  We have been discussing the options in the lifestyle of both maintaining distance from those we play and sleep with, or developing more social “friendship” type relationships. To this point, while we chat through email and the occasional phone call, it has mainly been that of sex partners by which we would call our swinging partners.

That was, until this past weekend.

Roxy and I decided to make plans for Saturday night with the “International” couple and a group of their lifestyle friends who were going to the Food and Wine Expo in Toronto. I had never been and Roxy hadn’t been in years.  What a great opportunity to meet other like minded couples, in a safe surrounding and see what happened. Worst case, nothing.  Best case, we meet other couples without going through the online back and forth that takes so much time and energy or “picking up” at a club routine that really isn’t our style.

While planning the night out, the same group decided they would get together Friday night to hit up the Everything to do with Sex show. Again, a place neither Roxy nor I had been in years. We decided we were game, and now had a weekend of plans with a group of couples whom we didn’t know (except for one). When we informed a couple on one of the websites we use to meet people, Cafe Desire, that we were going to the Sex show, they informed us they too were going and perhaps, we could arrange to “bump” into each other…I love being a little mischievous.

So Friday came around and Roxy and I got picked up by our friends (yes, they are now our friends) the “International” couple. This was the first time a swinger couple had seen our home. We drive to the sex show, met their friends (all quite nice and attractive) and started to walk around the show.  A few text messages later and guess who we bumped into? All I can say are two things, first it was an awkward meeting having other friends there but second, they were very attractive so we hope over the next few months to have more to tweet and blog about them and further opportunities to “bump” into them.

The show was small, so we decided to hit Wicked after the show. We sat down, talked and got to know the other couples, and had a few drinks.  Roxy and I were really enjoying our time.  No pressure, no expectations, just nice, normal people who share our views on sex – that it is something fun, enjoyable, and can be shared with others. Roxy (as usual) decided to get the group up on the dance floor and get Wicked going for the night. So up we went, and our bodies started to move, touch, rub and grind on the dance floor.  It was getting a little warm…

Fast forward an hour or two and it was down to the “Tall” couple and us (notice the new couple introduction?). The tall couple were in face my favorite of the bunch and they asked if we wanted to go upstairs with them. Roxy and I agreed and so up we went.  The routine of getting a locker, getting naked and finding a spot to sit moved fast, and next thing we knew the four of us were on two mattresses with our partners, ready to play.  We hadn’t discussed rules or expectations, so each couple started to play alone.  Save for a few touches and kisses between the women, this night was about watching and being watched.  It was hot, fun and sexy.  The woman in the “Tall” couple was quite loud and it made me excited to listen to her moan and yell as she orgasmed.  We ended the night with them and went home to sleep.

Saturday night came quickly and Roxy and I went down to the Food and Wine Expo to meet the crew.  Sadly our friends who set the whole thing up could not make it so we were alone with their crew.  Luckily we hot it off the night before with everyone so it was a fun and easy night spent with some great people that I think Roxy and I can now call friends of our own. I am sure there will be many more posts to come featuring the new friends…so stay tuned.

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1. Forget full swap, touching would be nice
2. Two Weeks of Fun
3. Our first visit to Wicked – part two
4. The perfect mix
5. No full swap over the holidays