When we saw the “International” couple walk in to the pub, we saw a decent looking, dark guy and his blond wife who, to be honest was cute. Roxy and I looked at each other….game on!

They sat down across from us and the conversation began. We talked about us, our kids, our jobs. They talked about their background, their travels, their education, his kids…that’s another story. The chat and banter were good.  We had a lot, and not a lot in common at the same time.  The funny thing was that the female half of the couple felt like she knew Roxy from somewhere. After digging a little into that (and I have to say I don’t really like trying to find out other couple’s life connections to us – just feels weird). we discovered that there was a connection, but not to Roxy, rather her sister!  Small world.

After the usual background conversation I must admit, I started to find “her” more attractive. At first, she was cute.  Not the kind of girl I would usually be gaga over, but my attitude was changing.  I was starting to become more attracted to her. Him on the other hand.  Well being a straight guy in this lifestyle, I can easily admit he was a decent looking dude. I was hoping Roxy found him attractive as that way, we could have a chance at moving this forward.

So we finished dinner and over dessert got into the lifestyle chat. They had been in it for quite some time, 4 years or so.  They wanted to assure us that they weren’t the kind of people that just slept around, but we were able to tell that right away.  They also have a few couple friends with whom they had become close. Not just sexually, but in their daily lives as well. Again, coming back to the discussions Roxy and I have had in the past about whether we can become friends or just fuck other couples…(we still don’t have the answer by the way)…enough about that.

So, we didn’t really talk sex other than the fact the the woman in the “International” couple was definitely bi-sexual, having gone to a female only college and experimenting quite a lot (“she likes to touch boobies”. He was definitely the driver and the more open sexually in the relationship, but she had come into her own and was definitely a very sexual being.

Fast forward to the next day.

Roxy and I decided we would like to see them again, but this time to play.  Perhaps at a club, maybe a hotel.  Either way we planned on sending them a note to set a date. Would they like us? Did they find us attractive? It is so interesting having the same thoughts you did when you were single and dating. The only difference is now there are two people who have to like and be interested in two other people.  The odds are definitely more difficult, though in the lifestyle you aren’t looking for a spouse, rather another couple to fuck.

Guess what, before we could write them back, she emailed us!  I guess we passed the first test.  Time to write back, set the next date and see what happens…

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