The elusive male g-spot (orgasm)
Roxy and I are on a quest, to working on her own G-spot: how to find it, how to stimulate it and how to turn her into putty with a G-spot orgasm. What most men including myself are far less familiar with is our own male G-spot. Apparently, the male version not only exists, but is far, far easier to find.
According to AskMen.com the male G-spot isn’t all that difficult to find, but it does require a little patience. Lying on your back is generally considered to be the most comfortable position for this, so you’ll probably want to make use of the bed or perhaps a large sofa. The process will be easiest with your legs elevated, which you can do by simply leaning your legs against the wall behind the bed or draping them over the back of the sofa. If you’re still having difficulty reaching the perineum from this position, you can lift your backside further by sliding a pillow or two under your bum.
Once you’re comfortable, start by gently massaging the area surrounding the anus. Most men enjoy having their taint (also known as the perineum) stimulated, and that can certainly be incorporated into this process. Use the soft pad of your index finger while exploring, and be gentle. As you relax further, lube your finger up and let it gently brush across the surface of your anus. Repeat this move several times, each time increasing the pressure slightly. When you’re comfortable enough to begin probing, you should keep things slow and gentle, taking care to relax your sphincter during the process. Once you’ve come in contact with the male G-spot, you’ll recognize it as a small, chestnut-sized bump situated approximately two inches inward.
Ok, now I have not tried this yet. In fact,to be honest I am completely scared. As sexually open as Roxy and I are (together and with others), this is one thing that is totally freaking me out. I don’t know why. I am not a macho guy. I am not unwilling to take risks. Simply put it is one of those sacred male areas that are often associated with other things. Perhaps it is simply the fear of pain. I really don’t know why I am so bothered by the whole idea.
From all I have read, men should not be ashamed of stimulating the male G-spot; the results can be explosive…
If you do decide to take the trip to the G, here are some tips from AskMen.com on how to stimulate it;
Finger
You shouldn’t limit this method to solo exploration. Believe it or not, many women enjoy performing this type of stimulation in the bedroom, particularly when the resulting orgasms can be so powerful. If you’d like to try something highly erotic, have her give you a blow job while stimulating your prostate.
G-spot goodie: Brace your hands against the back of a sofa and bend over at a 90-degree angle. Spread your legs apart and have your woman get on her knees in front of you. This will allow her to perform oral sex while still being able to stimulate your prostate.
Rim Job
There was a time when most women had no idea what a rim job was – those days are long past, and most are quite savvy with the technique these days. If you’d like to add a little extra ecstasy to your next sex session, bring up the subject of reciprocal rim jobs. It’s quite simple, really: When you’re both fresh out of the bath, use your tongue to gently probe each other’s anuses. The sensation is truly incredible and you’re both sure to enjoy it.
G-spot goodie: Magnify your orgasms by manually stimulating each other during the rim job; toying with her clitoris should lead to a powerful climax for her, and a well-timed hand job will guarantee your own.
Butt Plug
If you’d like to combine sex and prostate stimulation, butt plugs are one of the simplest options available on the market. They can be used during blow jobs or actual intercourse. Butt plugs come in a variety of shapes and sizes, so you needn’t worry about the experience being painful or uncomfortable; simply choose the size that meets your requirements.
G-spot goodie: If you’d like to experience something truly incredible, work your PC muscles while penetrating your woman. This will stimulate the male G-spot further than you could possibly imagine.
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