I have been thinking a lot (probably too much) about our last rendezvous with the “squirt”couple.  Should we be having one night stands or be forming long-term relationships in the swinging lifestyle?   I think there are benefits to both.  Both have presented themselves to us, and I must admit my views are changing.

After meeting the “older” couple, who were very experienced in this lifestyle, I really thought a long-term relationship was the way to go.  It sounded great to have one or two couples that you knew were fun, easy to see and had chemistry.  But I am not sure anymore.

Like I said I have been thinking a lot about the “squirting” couple, as we have plans to see them for a third time at the end of October.  My issue is that I am not overly excited to be with them again.  A little bit of the thrill of the newness and unknown is gone or  maybe it is because the chemistry was not really there (although it was definitely there the night we met, which could be the 17 mojitos talking).

Part of the reason I got into swinging was for some sexual variety, change and FUN with my husband.  Not that meeting them a third time won’t be fun.  But I feel as though I know what to expect.  I now know how he and she tastes , feels, kisses,  gives oral and fucks.

Now, I not saying we aren’t going to meet and that we aren’t going to have a crazy good time.  I just wonder if after meeting with a couple a few times, we should move on to another couple?  I guess this is the question that Roxy and C will have to explore.  Do we prefer the one night stand or the on-going relationship or maybe a little of both?

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