How much is too much?
When a couple decides to engage in sex with others it becomes a challenge to manage the process and the logistics of setting up the encounters. First, you have to find the people with whom you want to hook up. Next, you have to find the place to meet and get it on (a club like Wicked, a hotel, etc.). Finally, you need to spend time managing the communications prior to the night whether by email or phone. In the end, there is a substantial amount of time required to be in the lifestyle. If you were to engage weekly or every other week with different people, imagine the time commitment.
Roxy and I have decided that engaging about once a month in the lifestyle fits our schedules. If we have plans to meet a couple then that will be our activity for the month. If we don’t, then we may choose to go to a club on our own. We also have plans to attend an on-premise party hosted by Happy Hedonist in the next while. There are so many things to do – just not enough time to do them all.
I think we have found a nice balance for now. Things can obviously change. We could go longer without doing anything and perhaps if we really found something or someone we really enjoyed – then we would do it more! That is the great thing about the lifestyle – we are in control of our own actions….and pleasure!
How often do you participate in lifestyle activities? Is it a part of your daily life or do you try to limit it so as to not interfere with the “normal” routine?
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