The “experienced couple”
They seemed interesting, attractive and not too aggressive in their online pursuit of us. We started with a wink on Adult Friend Finder, followed by a virtual kiss and then, a few emails. They told us that they were looking for a new couple to replace a couple they had been in a “long term” relationship with. They went on to tell us that they had another couple, that they had been in a relationship with for four years – WOW! Well, this actually sat well with Roxy and I, that couples in the lifestyle could find others to engage in long term relationships with. We were intrigued…
After a few weeks of emails the couple asked us to chat by phone – having the girls talk first (to ensure we were actually a couple – good learning here for newbies). The conversation went well, followed by further communication and eventually a date to meet. They were definitely more aggressive than we were, asking us about our sexual fantasies, together and alone. They started to tell us that they play as a couple, but also alone as they both give each other that freedom – something Roxy and I are not willing to do as we have chosen to swing to enhance the two of us, together. Regardless we decided to continue with the meeting.
We met in a location close enough to our house that we could walk. On the way, Roxy and I discussed all the scenarios, the code word for “get me the hell out of here”, the usual stuff. We got to the restaurant and they were sitting there in a booth. First reaction – well, at least he looked like his pictures.
The woman…that’s another story. Why do people use pictures that are obvioulsy old? If you are planning on meeting another couple or single for that matter, why would you not use an accurate representation? Anyways, let’s just say that both Roxy and I were surprised at the difference between the pictures and the real deal.
We sat down and actually had good conversation. Roxy and I both looked at each other and we knew that this wasn’t going to be a match. We went through the evening, had a good time and then went home. The weekend was about to begin and it was going to be a busy one as it was father’s day and we had plans with our kids. What happened next, well let’s just say it’s best described in a time line as it totally turned us off;
Time line:
Friday PM – the dinner date
Saturday AM – first email saying something nice about us and ending with the line “so, wanna fuck?”
Sunday AM (Father’s day) – second email stating that due to our not responding to their previous email we were obvioulsy ignoring them, being rude and need to just tell them
So when did becoming swingers force us to pretend to be back in high school. It turned out that the experienced couple was not as experienced as we would have like in terms of the courting process. At least we were able to learn a lot about how not to handle the first meeting.
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