Squirting and getting super wet

Posted on 17. Aug, 2009 by in Our Story

Being in the lifestyle has definitely opened my eyes to a new world of sex.  Sex with my husband of 10 years (together 14 years) has been re-engnited.  It also means sex exploration for myself, for the first time in a long time.  Although I have always been a sexual person (or at least have always enjoyed sex) I feel that I may only be at the tip of the ice berg in my discovery of sex, with so much more to go.  Which led me to invest time into researching  everything about sex.

My research was successful.  I found lots great websites, it was such good reading.  But I definitely am a hands on person, so reading was not enough.  I purchased some new toys, including the Rabbit and smartballs for myself, and the elastic lassie for my husband (it is a great toy for a guy, worth the money).  We have had great fun with all our new gadgets.  One night my husband and I started to search for some porn and came across videos on squirting.  My husband turned to me and said “it would be so fucking hot if you could squirt, it is my fantasy”.  We watched the video and had hot sex while watching these girls gush everywhere.

So that got me intriged.  Could I ejaculate?  I have started my journey with a class at Good For Her called Let it go and let it flow: G spot and female ejaculation.  It was a great place to start.  Ten women discussing their desire to learn about their G spots and squirting.  Afterwards we all went downstairs and bought some toys to help us in our personal discoveries.  I will probably never see anyone again from the class (except the friend I went with) but for that hour and a half we were all connected by our common interest and desire to learn about sex.  I have since learned how many women don’t know and understand their G spots.  I think women need to be more comfortable talking about sex and their bodies.

I have not squirted to date but my husband and I are having fun trying.  I will be sure to let you all know when it happens.  I have to admit that I am a little worried about our bed.  I guess I should get a plastic sheet as I never know when it can happen.

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  • http://www.notyourmothersplayground.com/ samantha

    How was the class? My friend @taramckee teaches it, and from personal experience … she knows what she’s doing. :) I only discovered recently that it was possible for me, not like it happens in porn, but in my own way.

    Just remember … when possible, pee first, and keep a towel by the bed!!

  • http://www.notyourmothersplayground.com samantha

    How was the class? My friend @taramckee teaches it, and from personal experience … she knows what she’s doing. :) I only discovered recently that it was possible for me, not like it happens in porn, but in my own way.

    Just remember … when possible, pee first, and keep a towel by the bed!!

  • http://www.fantasyplan.com/ Roxy

    That’s who taught my class…it was very “educational” – I was able to get my first G-spot orgasm the next day with one of the new toys she recommended…

  • http://www.fantasyplan.com Roxy

    That’s who taught my class…it was very “educational” – I was able to get my first G-spot orgasm the next day with one of the new toys she recommended…

  • http://www.abcsofswinging.blogspot.com/ Karl

    Interesting post and website. We recently discovered “squirting” and the pleasure derived from it. After the research I’ve done on the subject and through personal experience, I’d give the following tips.

    #1 “He” or your hubby needs to learn how to find your G-spot. He also needs to be familiar with the inside wall of your vagina. There is a special little spot he needs to massage. Each woman is different, so how long or how hard is dependent on the woman.

    #2 most woman are afraid to have a ejaculate orgasm. They think they are peeing, because that’s exactly how it feels. The reality is that in most cases after a woman is stimulated down there long enough, the ejaculate has no urine in it. It’s often like a guys pre-lubercation, and if their is a water liquid, it’s often clear with no odor.

    #3 You (the woman) must trust the guy who is stimulating your G-Spot. You also must be comfortable with your own responses to the manual stimulation. Just relax and enjoy the feeling is what my wife suggests, just let it go, let it happen.

    Um, once it does happen, you’ll find it easier and easier each time to do it again. You will also need a bottle of water and a nice towel. One thing I can guarantee, if your husband can do this correctly, you will have one after another, and another, and another GSPOT orgasms. From the reaction my wife has, your going to love it!

  • http://www.abcsofswinging.blogspot.com Karl

    Interesting post and website. We recently discovered “squirting” and the pleasure derived from it. After the research I’ve done on the subject and through personal experience, I’d give the following tips.

    #1 “He” or your hubby needs to learn how to find your G-spot. He also needs to be familiar with the inside wall of your vagina. There is a special little spot he needs to massage. Each woman is different, so how long or how hard is dependent on the woman.

    #2 most woman are afraid to have a ejaculate orgasm. They think they are peeing, because that’s exactly how it feels. The reality is that in most cases after a woman is stimulated down there long enough, the ejaculate has no urine in it. It’s often like a guys pre-lubercation, and if their is a water liquid, it’s often clear with no odor.

    #3 You (the woman) must trust the guy who is stimulating your G-Spot. You also must be comfortable with your own responses to the manual stimulation. Just relax and enjoy the feeling is what my wife suggests, just let it go, let it happen.

    Um, once it does happen, you’ll find it easier and easier each time to do it again. You will also need a bottle of water and a nice towel. One thing I can guarantee, if your husband can do this correctly, you will have one after another, and another, and another GSPOT orgasms. From the reaction my wife has, your going to love it!