It was a great feeling to finally decide together that we were going to pursue this new “lifestyle”.  We were on the same page with regards to what we both wanted to do to enhance our sex lives.  The exciting part is that we are doing it as a married couple.  C and I spent some time on-line checking out different ways we could explore swinging.  The interesting part of our exploration was how we differed in our initial views on how we were going to meet other couples.  C was more into meeting couples on-line and forming a “relationship” with them.  Going for drinks, talking about our family and then having sex…….I on the other hand was more into going to a club, having drinks and then some meanless sex……….a little role reversal?

 We did them both!  We put our pictures on a few on-line dating sites.  The funny part about our profiles on-line was that we did not have any sexy nude pictures we wanted to use.  So, one night after we went out for dinner I took off my clothes and we took some pictures in our bedroom.  We have been using them ever since then and let’s just say they turned out great.  We get the best responses to our pics all the time, if they only knew.  By the way, you should know that on-line is all about the women.  You only ask to see the guy’s face pic after both partners agree on the women.  Finally, it’s all about the women………  We loved getting emails and flirts from other couples.  It totally got us horny just reading the responses and looking at other naked hot couples that wanted us.

We also went to a club.  Our choice was club Wicked, which is on-premise.  We went on a Saturday night and had a fabulous time.  Did I say fabulous…..We went for dinner first and decided to talk about the “rules”.   What would we do if another couple approached us, what signal would we give each other if we liked the couple or did not like them?  Would we do full swap or soft swap?  Would we just go and be voyeurs?  We were open to anything.  But we definitely agreed we would listen to each other regarding what was comfortable and not comfortable.

We had a night of sex.  3 hours of sex.  We used every room, every bed, every level.  The only thing we did not use (and will never use) was the hot tub.  Having sex with C all night and knowing that other people were watching us was so exciting and hot.  It gets me horny just thinking about it now.  We can’t wait to go back.

Related posts:

1. Our first encounter with another couple
2. Full swap
3. The “experienced couple”
4. The real deal (you want to read this post)
5. Tonight is round 2