Full swap
C and I joined on-line sites, like Adult Friend Finder and Lavalife to try to find our first couple to swing with. We designated specific time at night to go through the numerous profiles. We first check out the pics to decide whether they are attractive physically. Of course looking at naked pics of cocks and pussy always gets us hot and horny and usually turns into us having crazy sex. We then send an email to a few of the couples that interest us. Not only do they have to be physically attractive, but we are looking for another couple in a similar stage of life; married, kids, etc. so it definitely takes time to read the profiles (yes, we actually read the profiles). It is exciting to be looking for “first dates” with my husband. Part of the fun is finding another couple that both of us like. It’s interesting to see who my husband of 10 years finds hot and sexy.
So after communicating with a few couples we made plans to meet one of them for dinner. The two women spoke (this is a technique used to make sure that they are a ‘real’ couple and not a single guy BS-ing his profile). The conversation was good and we came to a location and time quite easily, which I thought was a good sign. The babysitter was booked, the reservation was made, now what was I going to wear….I decided on skinny tight pants and a hulter top. Sexy but not too revealing for a first date dinner.
C and I got to the restaurant first and decided to sit beside each other. On our drive we had to decide on some signs to give if we did not like the couple. Well, they actually looked like their pics, which was a good thing. The conversation flowed and was easy but neither one of us was truly feeling the chemistry. He was definitely better looking,but she dominated the conversation, so he lost some appeal for me. After dinner they invited us back to their place and some how we ended up going. Nothing happened, which was ok with me. I wanted to go home, I was BORED! Enough talking.
We ended up meeting another couple (which is worth it’s own blog…..it will come tomorrow), which made C and I realize that maybe couple #1 was not so bad. They had emailed us about getting together again, and we decided to take them up on it. We booked a hotel room and planned to have a fun night. We all met for drinks first and then went upstairs. Now they were a little more experienced in the lifestyle, and their experience was always full swap, separate rooms. C and I had decided before that we were fine with full swap but wanted same room, we wanted to be there together.
I should have known this was going to happen. We got up to the room and all of a sudden there was a weird tension. No one knew what to do. Well, being the confident women that I am and not wanting to ‘beat around the bush’, I striped down to nothing and jumped into bed…everyone followed. He jumped into bed with me and she got into bed with C. We started kissing and touching, which led to licking, fingering and then sex. The sex was ok. His penis was a decent size, but he did not really know what to do with it. He had nothing on C.
We did have fun and the fun continued even more when we got home. C and I have great sex when we got home.
We needed this first experience to know what we like and don’t like. We now know that we want everyone to get involved, menage a quatre is what we like.
Related posts: