I was much more into the concept of spending time online, looking at profiles and pictures to find the right couple with whom we could lose our virginity.  Roxy was more into the club scene.  Go, dance, drink…and see what would happen.  After discussing the options, we decided to go with both.  So, to find a club we went online.  We had heard about a club in downtown Toronto, Wicked. The club is an on-premise club meaning that there are private areas to get down and have sex, right there, in front of whoever decides to watch.  This alone was something that we both found intriguing, the voyeur aspect of our sexuality.

At the same time, we decided to look at adult oriented websites and start searching. There were a few free, and a few paid services online to help us find the couple to pop our cherry. We decided to start with the paid services. So, we created accounts on Adult Friend Finder and Lavalife. Once registered the searching began. Our parameters, 25-45, couples only, local to the Toronto area, slim, fit or average bodies…blah blah blah.

Ok, so how does a couple sort through all of these results. For me, it was actually a fun experience.  Seeing all these people who are in the lifestyle. Could I know some of them, from work, maybe my neighbours, friends even? Wouldn’t that be funny! Some were quite, well, not our type.  Others, wow – HOT! Together, it gave us the start of what would become fantasy material for our own sex. Going to bed after searching online, talking dirty about other people’s pictures and what we would do when we finally met a couple…

Oh – and we also decided on a night to hit the club…June 7 – the date was set.

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3. Our first club visit – Wicked
4. The Out Of Towners Did Not Disappoint!
5. Our first visit to Wicked – part two